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wanting that certain something
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 | 411: | Bridgewater, Nova Scotia |  | | Stats: | age 38 married |  | | Seeks: | women for friend&fling |  | | Last On: | Jun-11-07 4:53 PM |  |
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 | I am just looking for someone to help me make the accident that is my existence more interesting. |
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 |  WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A PARTNER? |
 | I am looking for someone interesting and intelligent (those are NOT the same thing), someone who is gentle and kind and enjoys light (but fascinating) conversation, good wine, rich foods, a wide variety of topics that can seem unimportant but may not be. Someone who is active and fun to be around and likes a little romance, soft lighting and hand-holding but also likes letting loose, being funny, laughing a long time over something that later turns out not to seem funny. Someone around whom I can be myself (is the use of "whom" too much - or even correct). Someone who is in control of themselves, knows what they want and is happy with what they have so far. Does that seem like a lot to ask? 
What I am looking for is someone who is confident and genuine. Maybe we won't hit it off but I like people who are a good fit for their own skin. |
 |  DESCRIBE YOUR PERFECT FIRST DATE |
 | There is such a wide variety of first date scenarios and how many of them are "perfect". For me perfection is entirely dependent on the person I am with. As far as great first dates go, I have had great first dates that were over several hundred dollars of wine and food and great first dates that were over a well BBQ'd steak (still have to have the wine). I have had great first dates that were literally a walk in the walk in the park and great first dates that were a walk on the wild side. |
 |  I AM PASSIONATE ABOUT |
 | Strangely enough I am not very passionate about anything, or, perhaps, the things I am passionate about are intangibles like Truth, Justice, Love and Spirit. I greatly enjoy some art and literature and love life but I do not work myself into an extreme position on anything really. I am fascinated by other people who live and think differently than me whether they are from another culture or just live down the block. |
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 |  MY THERAPIST DESCRIBES MY PERSONALITY(S) AS |
 | Hahahaha - c'mon - me, a therapist?... okay, she would say I am kind and gentle, that I need to show more emotion and that I overthink things and overthink them too well. |
 |  A LOVER ONCE DESCRIBED MY LOOKS AS |
 | "That's the biggest c*ck I have ever seen!" (I am guesssing she had not seen too many). I get "handsome" a lot. Almost never "cute". Not "hot". I get strong a lot and "I love your big shoulders" quite often. A few times I have been accused of being a bit rough but no one has ever been physically injured. |
 |  TO GET MY LOVER HOT, I |
 | Depends on the person. Gentle touching of non-sexual body parts seems to work... lots of slow lip work on shoulders and necks and bellies... firm hands without harm has ben effective in the past and liquor never hurts  |
 |  TO SATISFY MY CRAVINGS, MY LOVER MUST |
 | My god this page is loooong.... I don't know, have a pulse.... If we are talking just my craving then not a whole lot... if we are talking about fulfilling my desire in a non-animal sense then I would say being intelligent, funny, caring, thoughtful, INTERESTED, appealing, giving, fun, serious (when appropriate), a bit self-absorbed ... basically being a decent human being and responding to my needs in some way that demonstrates a modicum of empathy... sorry, don't mean to sound bitter but there have been too many people in my past who were way too worried about what they were doing to me and not worried enough about what they were doing WITH me. |
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 |  ACTIVITIES |
 | Movies, Reading, Travel, Volunteer, Writing |
 |  PERSONALITY |
 | Braniac, Funny, Generous, Kind, Sarcastic |
 |  CARTOON I RESEMBLE
Daffy Duck |
 |  WHAT I SEE IN THIS INKBLOT |
 | That is so obviously the coat of arms for our fair province.... this is a dumb page. |
| | | |  | Media Stuff |  | | | | |
 |  ON THE CAN, I READ |
 | A news magazine... |
 |  MY DVD IS USUALLY SPINNING |
 | Sci-Fi, horror or something |
 |  MY JUKEBOX BEATS TO THE SOUND OF |
 | Almost anything. |
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 | Birthday: | Jan, 17 Capricorn |  |  | Country: | Canada |  |  | Sexuality: | Straight |  |  | Joined: | Oct-19-06 11:51 AM |  | 

 |  | Roots: | White |  |  | Spirit: | Agnostic |  |  | Longitude: | Average |  |  | Latitude: | Few Extra Pounds |  |  | Offspring: | None |  |  | Job: | Professional |  |  | Insight: | Graduate School |  | 

 |  | Ethanol: | Often Tanked |  |  | Nicotine: | Addicted |  |  | Ganja: | Midnight Toker |  |
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